"Yo rude boi, why you cross me, like a little t?"
Betrayal.
Such an ugly word. And no one wants to be on the wrong end of it. No one should really want to be on either side of it. But the question I am posing today is...."is some betrayal more worst than others?"
And my answer is yes. But remember, this is just my opinion.
I feel that some things, some forms of betrayal, a person can forgive, and continue on with that relationship, rather it be a friendship, romatic relationship, co-workers, etc etc. However, there are some things, that can be forgive {in due time} but the betrayal was so great, that the relationship is totally damaged and can not be repaired and it is best for all parties to go separate ways.
Betrayal comes in many stages, but it also depends on the individual and what betrayal is to them. What I may feel like is a small form of betrayal may be a bigger deal to some one else.
The bottom line, is that no one likes to feel the sting of betrayal. No one like to feel like someone balantly disregarded the relationship and the trust of the relationship. It is not a good feeling.
I can possibly get over if a female friend of my mine, talked to an ex boyfriend of mine. It would bother me for a while, but depending on the relationship I have with that girl and the relationship I had with my ex, in {due time} I would be able to forgive and still be that girl's friend. If one of my closest friends sleeps with like my husband to be ((which I hope and pray will never happen, but I trust Jonathan and Pavielle lol))that is really unforgiveable and I would not be able to be with him nor be her friend again. But that's just me. I've seen this happen and all parties were able to move past it. Not me.
Betrayal isn't good. So just try to avoid
it at all cost. The best way to avoid it, ask yourself, "what if he/she was doing this to me? How would I feel or react?" And it you cant answer, or you get a negative answer....just stay away.
Betrayal is never good, for anyone. Heed my warning and stay away before you be crying and your nose is all stuffy!
Betrayal.
Such an ugly word. And no one wants to be on the wrong end of it. No one should really want to be on either side of it. But the question I am posing today is...."is some betrayal more worst than others?"
And my answer is yes. But remember, this is just my opinion.
I feel that some things, some forms of betrayal, a person can forgive, and continue on with that relationship, rather it be a friendship, romatic relationship, co-workers, etc etc. However, there are some things, that can be forgive {in due time} but the betrayal was so great, that the relationship is totally damaged and can not be repaired and it is best for all parties to go separate ways.
Betrayal comes in many stages, but it also depends on the individual and what betrayal is to them. What I may feel like is a small form of betrayal may be a bigger deal to some one else.
The bottom line, is that no one likes to feel the sting of betrayal. No one like to feel like someone balantly disregarded the relationship and the trust of the relationship. It is not a good feeling.
I can possibly get over if a female friend of my mine, talked to an ex boyfriend of mine. It would bother me for a while, but depending on the relationship I have with that girl and the relationship I had with my ex, in {due time} I would be able to forgive and still be that girl's friend. If one of my closest friends sleeps with like my husband to be ((which I hope and pray will never happen, but I trust Jonathan and Pavielle lol))that is really unforgiveable and I would not be able to be with him nor be her friend again. But that's just me. I've seen this happen and all parties were able to move past it. Not me.
Betrayal isn't good. So just try to avoid
it at all cost. The best way to avoid it, ask yourself, "what if he/she was doing this to me? How would I feel or react?" And it you cant answer, or you get a negative answer....just stay away.Betrayal is never good, for anyone. Heed my warning and stay away before you be crying and your nose is all stuffy!
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