Someone once told me the hardest thing in life is deciding which bridges to cross and which to burn. However, when you decide these things, you must keep in mind that the bridges you want to burn you don't need the people on the other side. Don't burn bridges if you know you can't swim. If you know you will need that person and/or that connections that that the person offers, than don't cut that person off completely...but keep them at a distance.
I regret cutting off some of the people that I have cut off but not because I feel like I will need them later on down the road. Just miss the friendships sometimes, but I realized that although we were friends for an amount of time, our lives were going in different directions and it was time to part, thus those bridges had to be burned. Jonathan's aunt always tells us that in order for two people to walk together, they must agree. When the people don't agree...that's when its time for the bridges to burn.
Burning bridges may be a good or bad thing, depends on how and why the bridges were burned. And you will see the results of whether it is in the long run. So choose your bridges wisely!
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