Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Too Much Loyalty?


I am a mighty Leo...yep, King of the Jungle. And Leos are alot of things. Passionate, intelligent, sexy, stubborn and last but not least loyal. And that's the problem. I think that Leos are TOO DAMN LOYAL!!!
We are loyal to all people that betray us, family members, friends, spouses, coworkers, etc, etc. Loyalty can be a good thing but is there such a thing as too much loyalty?
And because these people who know us, know that we are loyal creatures, sometimes take our loyalty for granted. For example, a friend may continue to play on your feelings, stand you up, borrow money and dont return it, and is never there when you really need them to be, but yet and still, because you consider them a friend, you remain their friend, and your friend knows this. But this is something that you have to realize, you dont just become my friend because we work together, or went to school together, or have a common friend...oh no. We are friends because we have went through something and we have bonded on another level. So for the beginning of the relationship, it is alllll good. But than, things start to happen and the frienship slowly gets sour. And of course you want to cut this friend off, but you remember the good times, and you dont.
I am trying to break out of that habit. Just because we were friends once before does not mean I have to continue to be your friend. I broke this loyalty bond with my ex and now I am breaking it with friends and maybe even some family members. If they were really friends like they claim, or loved me like they claimed, they wouldnt stress and test my loyalty anyways!
Yes, us Leos tend to be loyal.... A LITTLE TOO DAMN LOYAL! But that buck stops here! Is there a such thing as too much loyalty? YES, THERE IS! And we all know that too much of a good thing is bad for you in the end.

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