"Yeah I may like you for a minute, but that dont mean I like your friends all up in my business!"
Ugh! So true!
I hate when people, esp people I dont like nor know, try to be all up in my business and what not! That irks the hell out of me!
I just had to remove and block about 25 people on facebook because they were all suspect of being in my business. These nosey ass people were taking simple ish that I put on facebook and going back and telling Jonathan. I mean, one time I wrote on HIS wall that he snores in his sleep and three people texted him about it! Like wtf? Seriously.
So I had to drop them!
If you arent part of the solution, than you are part of the problem. They were not helping toward the greater good of our relationship, as a result, they were part of the problem. As a result, I had to remove them from my life.
That is all.
Back to my reguarly scheduled life.
Look forward to a post soon.
And for those who read this, please....
esp with my relationship,
esp the parts that I dont indulge to you myself personally.
Thanks :)
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Ask Me!
Sooooo the new thing right now, is this sorta honesyt box...but its not like facebook, twitter, or myspace. Thank God because I only have a facebook! LBS....Anywhooo...it lets you ask totally anonymous questions and it give the person the option to answer it or not. I am currently answering all questions that come thru my box. I feel like I don't have anything to hide, I'm pretty up front. So far Ive been getting general, random questions, but I know the more people find out about it, the crazier the questions might get. And I'm ready! LBS....
So go ahead and ask away! I know there is something that you want to know about me...go ahead and ask away my darling!!!!
Here's the link...copy and paste it to go to the website. And remember it doesn't tell me who you are!
http://www.formspring.me/mzpippi
Indulge yourself in my life!
:)
So go ahead and ask away! I know there is something that you want to know about me...go ahead and ask away my darling!!!!
Here's the link...copy and paste it to go to the website. And remember it doesn't tell me who you are!
http://www.formspring.me/mzpippi
Indulge yourself in my life!
:)
Friday, January 8, 2010
Betrayal....At Its Finest???
"Yo rude boi, why you cross me, like a little t?"
Betrayal.
Such an ugly word. And no one wants to be on the wrong end of it. No one should really want to be on either side of it. But the question I am posing today is...."is some betrayal more worst than others?"
And my answer is yes. But remember, this is just my opinion.
I feel that some things, some forms of betrayal, a person can forgive, and continue on with that relationship, rather it be a friendship, romatic relationship, co-workers, etc etc. However, there are some things, that can be forgive {in due time} but the betrayal was so great, that the relationship is totally damaged and can not be repaired and it is best for all parties to go separate ways.
Betrayal comes in many stages, but it also depends on the individual and what betrayal is to them. What I may feel like is a small form of betrayal may be a bigger deal to some one else.
The bottom line, is that no one likes to feel the sting of betrayal. No one like to feel like someone balantly disregarded the relationship and the trust of the relationship. It is not a good feeling.
I can possibly get over if a female friend of my mine, talked to an ex boyfriend of mine. It would bother me for a while, but depending on the relationship I have with that girl and the relationship I had with my ex, in {due time} I would be able to forgive and still be that girl's friend. If one of my closest friends sleeps with like my husband to be ((which I hope and pray will never happen, but I trust Jonathan and Pavielle lol))that is really unforgiveable and I would not be able to be with him nor be her friend again. But that's just me. I've seen this happen and all parties were able to move past it. Not me.
Betrayal isn't good. So just try to avoid
it at all cost. The best way to avoid it, ask yourself, "what if he/she was doing this to me? How would I feel or react?" And it you cant answer, or you get a negative answer....just stay away.
Betrayal is never good, for anyone. Heed my warning and stay away before you be crying and your nose is all stuffy!
Betrayal.
Such an ugly word. And no one wants to be on the wrong end of it. No one should really want to be on either side of it. But the question I am posing today is...."is some betrayal more worst than others?"
And my answer is yes. But remember, this is just my opinion.
I feel that some things, some forms of betrayal, a person can forgive, and continue on with that relationship, rather it be a friendship, romatic relationship, co-workers, etc etc. However, there are some things, that can be forgive {in due time} but the betrayal was so great, that the relationship is totally damaged and can not be repaired and it is best for all parties to go separate ways.
Betrayal comes in many stages, but it also depends on the individual and what betrayal is to them. What I may feel like is a small form of betrayal may be a bigger deal to some one else.
The bottom line, is that no one likes to feel the sting of betrayal. No one like to feel like someone balantly disregarded the relationship and the trust of the relationship. It is not a good feeling.
I can possibly get over if a female friend of my mine, talked to an ex boyfriend of mine. It would bother me for a while, but depending on the relationship I have with that girl and the relationship I had with my ex, in {due time} I would be able to forgive and still be that girl's friend. If one of my closest friends sleeps with like my husband to be ((which I hope and pray will never happen, but I trust Jonathan and Pavielle lol))that is really unforgiveable and I would not be able to be with him nor be her friend again. But that's just me. I've seen this happen and all parties were able to move past it. Not me.
Betrayal isn't good. So just try to avoid
it at all cost. The best way to avoid it, ask yourself, "what if he/she was doing this to me? How would I feel or react?" And it you cant answer, or you get a negative answer....just stay away.
Betrayal is never good, for anyone. Heed my warning and stay away before you be crying and your nose is all stuffy!
Whole New Decade
Sooooo, it's 2010! I could not wait for this year to get here in 2006. LOL....I graudated from high school in 2006, and now Im graduating from college in five months!
I said last year when 2009 first came in, I told everyone else that they could have 2009 because 2010 would be my year! I already claimed it! Yes, it's mine!. Alot of great things are going to fall into place for in this great year.
Along with my success and accomplishments, will be challenges and hard times, and because I know this already, I am ready for whatever is going to come my way. I have God on my side, so I know there is no way I can lose!
None the less, 2010 brings the start of a new year, a new decade and new learning experiences.
I won't say that I will change, because I progess, mature and develop every day, not just when a new year comes along. So I will continue to do as such.
Can't wait to see all the great things of 2010!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Regret
Looking back, I regret doing some things that I have done in the past. There are some things I regret not doing when I had the chance. If I had a chance, there are some things I would do over altogether. I just live with these regrets and try and make things better as I continue on in this life of mine. But there are certainly some things I would change of my past, if I could........
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
If I Knew Than...
I hear the phrase, "If I knew than what I know now...."and this could not be anymore true for me right now.
Going through my senior year and trying to juggle everything else with my work for my classes, is a real struggle. I just received my lsat score back, and Im not as pleased as I thought I was going to be. At first I was thinking about doing Teach For America and putting law school on the back burner for two years. Teaching children was never in the plans for me, but it may very well be a back up plan. Teach For America will pay for law school and its entirety, and in return I will have to teach children in proverty for two years. My only problem is that I dont know if I want to put law school on the back burner for two years.
I really wish sometimes that I could go back in time and start all over again. Just be a freshmen at Howard Univeristy and do my undergrad experience all over again. I wish I knew as a freshmen, what I know now as a senior and maybe my senior year and this transition wouldnt be so difficult for me.
Now by all means, I am not complaining at all. I am very blessed to be in the position that I am with, with my struggles and all, but sometimes it gets to be too much.
As a told a peer earlier, I cant go back in time, I can only push forward. And I have to continue to push foward and I will do so. Just wish I knew back than what I know now.
"Back in the day when I was young, Im not a kid anymore, but some days I sit and wish I was a kid again"
Man aint that the truth!
Going through my senior year and trying to juggle everything else with my work for my classes, is a real struggle. I just received my lsat score back, and Im not as pleased as I thought I was going to be. At first I was thinking about doing Teach For America and putting law school on the back burner for two years. Teaching children was never in the plans for me, but it may very well be a back up plan. Teach For America will pay for law school and its entirety, and in return I will have to teach children in proverty for two years. My only problem is that I dont know if I want to put law school on the back burner for two years.
I really wish sometimes that I could go back in time and start all over again. Just be a freshmen at Howard Univeristy and do my undergrad experience all over again. I wish I knew as a freshmen, what I know now as a senior and maybe my senior year and this transition wouldnt be so difficult for me.
Now by all means, I am not complaining at all. I am very blessed to be in the position that I am with, with my struggles and all, but sometimes it gets to be too much.
As a told a peer earlier, I cant go back in time, I can only push forward. And I have to continue to push foward and I will do so. Just wish I knew back than what I know now.
"Back in the day when I was young, Im not a kid anymore, but some days I sit and wish I was a kid again"
Man aint that the truth!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Burning Bridges
Someone once told me the hardest thing in life is deciding which bridges to cross and which to burn. However, when you decide these things, you must keep in mind that the bridges you want to burn you don't need the people on the other side. Don't burn bridges if you know you can't swim. If you know you will need that person and/or that connections that that the person offers, than don't cut that person off completely...but keep them at a distance.
I regret cutting off some of the people that I have cut off but not because I feel like I will need them later on down the road. Just miss the friendships sometimes, but I realized that although we were friends for an amount of time, our lives were going in different directions and it was time to part, thus those bridges had to be burned. Jonathan's aunt always tells us that in order for two people to walk together, they must agree. When the people don't agree...that's when its time for the bridges to burn.
Burning bridges may be a good or bad thing, depends on how and why the bridges were burned. And you will see the results of whether it is in the long run. So choose your bridges wisely!
I regret cutting off some of the people that I have cut off but not because I feel like I will need them later on down the road. Just miss the friendships sometimes, but I realized that although we were friends for an amount of time, our lives were going in different directions and it was time to part, thus those bridges had to be burned. Jonathan's aunt always tells us that in order for two people to walk together, they must agree. When the people don't agree...that's when its time for the bridges to burn.
Burning bridges may be a good or bad thing, depends on how and why the bridges were burned. And you will see the results of whether it is in the long run. So choose your bridges wisely!
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